Damon Salvatore

Discuss the wicked Damon Salvatore

Why Is Damon Always Going After OR Been With Girls Who Have Been With Stefan OR Want Stefan.

ELENA

REBEKAH

KATHERINE

AND I AM SURE THERE ARE MORE .

Does This Need In Him Go Back To Their Dad OR Mom ?

Is Damon Trying To See If He Can Beat Stefan In Some Way ?

Does It Come From Being 2ND Best ?

Why Does Damon Think THAT It OK To Be Some Ones Back up ?

Is He In To Pain ?

Does He Get Off On Rejection ?

I REALLY THINK THIS ALL GOES BACK TO THEIR DAD . THE DAD SHOULD BE A GHOST THEY BOTH CAN TALK TO .WE SHOULD GET SOME DAMON GOES TO COUNSELING SCENES .HE NEEDS TO GET HIS MIND RIGHT .
What Is Causing This Drive In Damon? this would be a good story line 4 Damon,Stefan ,there mom and dad

ginbell wrote:

Why Is Damon Always Going After OR Been With Girls Who Have Been With Stefan OR Want Stefan.

ELENA

REBEKAH

KATHERINE

AND I AM SURE THERE ARE MORE .

Does This Need In Him Go Back To Their Dad OR Mom ?

Is Damon Trying To See If He Can Beat Stefan In Some Way ?

Does It Come From Being 2ND Best ?

Why Does Damon Think THAT It OK To Be Some Ones Back up ?

Is He In To Pain ?

Does He Get Off On Rejection ?

I REALLY THINK THIS ALL GOES BACK TO THEIR DAD . THE DAD SHOULD BE A GHOST THEY BOTH CAN TALK TO .WE SHOULD GET SOME DAMON GOES TO COUNSELING SCENES .HE NEEDS TO GET HIS MIND RIGHT .
What Is Causing This Drive In Damon? this would be a good story line 4 Damon,Stefan ,there mom and dad

someone metion this on another board and it funny but it true. Damon for some reason goes after girl Stefan had/ or had. i wonder if it has something to do with how he sees himself rather then what he went through with his father. With at least two of them he loves very deeply. So what is your state of mind that would allow to fall in love with women that you know love your brother, that you know there could be a chance that they will not love you back. why put yourself through that pain?

Maybe he it out of protection, to give your heart to someone is a big deal. So instead of giving himself to someone that can love him he goes after... not so heathly relationships in a way to avoid the pain of being rejected or hurt. Damon knew that Katherine love his brother and I think deep down he knew that she didn't love him the way he love her... he had to have known in some way or form.

I do think he loves Elena i know that he does and I know that she loves him, but if it didn't work out for what ever reason... I feel like he would be prepared because that is what he has been doning. Giving his heart to someone who love someone else is easy because your not so put off guard when the other shoe drops.

It's a bit weird, but I think it's just a coincidence. I mean the thing with Rebekah is that she has liked every guy on the show just about, Stefan, Damon, Tyler, Matt...so it speaks more about her than anything.

The whole doppelganger thing is just the premise of the show. But it makes me ask what is wrong with Stefan that after meeting Damon, his girls fall for them LOL.

I think at first is was more about getting under Stefan's skin. Thats why he went after Elena the way he did. And she was not habing it because she knew that he was just trying to get at Stefan. Then as the season went along he started to fall for Elena and in turned she fell for him because his feeling were real... it wasn't about Stefan it was about him truely being in love with this girl.

Do I think it is a healthy thing to date the girls you brother has/ or are... no. However his motive behind it may have been malicious to start with. However I think it is very clear that he no longer feels that way about Elena.

Absolutely, he definitely loves her and she loves him. Like you said, when he first got their he was too busy trying to get Katherine and for the most part he just wanted to mess with Stefan and ended up really caring for Elena.

Ehh, I don't think that he goes after girls that his brother wants/had. The only one I can give you that on is Elena. Rebekah he doesn't even like nor did he chase her. He flirted with her in that one episode to distract her, and the other was drunken sex for both of them. Katherine, we don't even know who was with her first to say that Damon wanted her cuz Stefan had her. Besides all the girls that claim to love Stefan always want Damon.

Katherine loves Stefan yet every chance she gets she tries to get into Damon's pants. And Damon has been with plenty of other girls that his brother never was with.

like Elena's mother ...just throwing it out there

Lol, pivoe.

Damon's a motherfocker?

Well he did try to have sex with Matt's mom, didn't he? ...and flirted with Carol

That was hilarious with Matt's mom. Carol was funny too when she rigged the auction so that she would win him.

pivoe wrote:

Well he did try to have sex with Matt's mom, didn't he? ...and flirted with Carol

he is a motherfocker

That's funny, but he has had "something" with all the main's moms except Liz and Abby . That's crazy though

KrayBaby wrote:

pivoe wrote:

Well he did try to have sex with Matt's mom, didn't he? ...and flirted with Carol

he is a motherfocker

That's funny, but he has had "something" with all the main's moms except Liz and Abby . That's crazy though

Liz I don't see him doing anything with since he considers her a friend. I actually hope they don't go there and keep their friendship. He doesn't have to sleep with everybody.

oh, no doubt he won't go there with Liz

How Old is Damon like 100 + Years Right


WHY IS THE BLUE HELL IS THIS GROWN ASS MAN STILL HAVING BITCH FITS AT HIS AGE ?????

With this Matt Thing Damon has No Room to pull Shame on ANY BODY
1 Matt did not do any thing wrong
2 Damon Killed Matt 's Sister ( Matt should have Shot Damon for just that Fact )
3 Damon knew that Alric told the council so why is he acting NEW
4 Damon has been turn in to a Punk I hope this can be fix

Well, Matt did drug Elena and "kidnapped" her, but I agree that Damon was out of ilne.

Matt is partly to blame, but just as the Salvatore's, he was only doing what he thought was best to protect the girl he loves as well (because I firmly believe he really loves Elena). Just as Damon and Stefan have both done time and time again. So, if anything, Damon should have understood. I understand he was angry, but the things he said to Matt, "In what world do you get to live." It was disgusting to me, really. And this is coming from a Damon fan.

With that being said, I believe that Matt and Damon will become buddies this season.

I know that it was kind of mean the way Damon treated Matt.. I was actually surprised at the brutality when they arrived on the ranch.. but I do understand where he is coming from. For me, it's just Damon being Damon. We know how strongly he feels about Elena, how much it means to him to protect her at all costs. Damon doesn't care about ANYBODY's feelings, he only cares about protecting Elena and Elena's well-being.

True, it's Damon being Damon and true Damon only cares about Elena...but that doesn't make it right. It was a whole series of events that caused Elena's death, and not just what Matt and Rebekah and Stefan did.

KrayBaby wrote:

True, it's Damon being Damon and true Damon only cares about Elena...but that doesn't make it right. It was a whole series of events that caused Elena's death, and not just what Matt and Rebekah and Stefan did.

Yeah true. Actually, I'm glad Matt isn't hurt worse than he was, Elena would have been very sad.

TheTVDLover wrote:

ginbell wrote:

Why Is Damon Always Going After OR Been With Girls Who Have Been With Stefan OR Want Stefan.

ELENA

REBEKAH

KATHERINE

AND I AM SURE THERE ARE MORE .

Does This Need In Him Go Back To Their Dad OR Mom ?

Is Damon Trying To See If He Can Beat Stefan In Some Way ?

Does It Come From Being 2ND Best ?

Why Does Damon Think THAT It OK To Be Some Ones Back up ?

Is He In To Pain ?

Does He Get Off On Rejection ?

I REALLY THINK THIS ALL GOES BACK TO THEIR DAD . THE DAD SHOULD BE A GHOST THEY BOTH CAN TALK TO .WE SHOULD GET SOME DAMON GOES TO COUNSELING SCENES .HE NEEDS TO GET HIS MIND RIGHT .
What Is Causing This Drive In Damon? this would be a good story line 4 Damon,Stefan ,there mom and dad

someone metion this on another board and it funny but it true. Damon for some reason goes after girl Stefan had/ or had. i wonder if it has something to do with how he sees himself rather then what he went through with his father. With at least two of them he loves very deeply. So what is your state of mind that would allow to fall in love with women that you know love your brother, that you know there could be a chance that they will not love you back. why put yourself through that pain?

Maybe he it out of protection, to give your heart to someone is a big deal. So instead of giving himself to someone that can love him he goes after... not so heathly relationships in a way to avoid the pain of being rejected or hurt. Damon knew that Katherine love his brother and I think deep down he knew that she didn't love him the way he love her... he had to have known in some way or form.

I do think he loves Elena i know that he does and I know that she loves him, but if it didn't work out for what ever reason... I feel like he would be prepared because that is what he has been doning. Giving his heart to someone who love someone else is easy because your not so put off guard when the other shoe drops.

KrayBaby wrote:

It's a bit weird, but I think it's just a coincidence. I mean the thing with Rebekah is that she has liked every guy on the show just about, Stefan, Damon, Tyler, Matt...so it speaks more about her than anything.

The whole doppelganger thing is just the premise of the show. But it makes me ask what is wrong with Stefan that after meeting Damon, his girls fall for them LOL.

YumYumOnigiri wrote:

I think at first is was more about getting under Stefan's skin. Thats why he went after Elena the way he did. And she was not habing it because she knew that he was just trying to get at Stefan. Then as the season went along he started to fall for Elena and in turned she fell for him because his feeling were real... it wasn't about Stefan it was about him truely being in love with this girl.

Do I think it is a healthy thing to date the girls you brother has/ or are... no. However his motive behind it may have been malicious to start with. However I think it is very clear that he no longer feels that way about Elena.

Ah the age old debate

Personally I draw from canon before it got extremely weird (usually s1 & and a bit of s2) I find that Damon was a damaged person even BEFORE he became a vampire I mean the stuff he used to do wasn't NORMAL. He was complex for e.g. he'd rather have not fought in the War but he was more than happy to lie down in the road to trap victims for Katherine. I mean.. That was some next level crap. When you compare that to what is happening now..it's all a pattern (he's in a cycle) but of course it's more intense. When you look at the two situations..there's only ONE difference. It's Katherine.

So what does it come down to? His basic need to BE WANTED FOR HIMSELF. Obviously, he knew Stefan loved him unconditionally but it's not the same as being wanted by a potential partner. He wanted to be wanted by Katherine. He thought probably - that because he was all out crazy for Katherine & that she was flaky, (and he was the heir to his father ) that he would be chosen over his brother. Of course didnt happen, that shattered him. It threw him into new territory with women (as well as men) that maybe perhaps he was in some way unattractive. Believe or not, I think Damon just liked strong women - those who could guide him as well as love him (yeah it's a mum-son thing methinks). He liked women who were headstrong and stubborn - two peas in a pod - because he feels they are the SAME. He doesn't understand why then Katherine would NOT choose him. I mean Stefan isn't anything like Damon & Katherine, right?

Personally, I think that sibling rivalry that became 'lover rivalry' and the inferiority complex just was carried over to when they became vampires. Let's be honest. They haven't ACTUALLY sat down and sorted it out. The time when they could have (when Katherine left Stefan for dead too) the Ripper got in the way and then Damon went off trying to get Katherine out to prove himself better once and for all. At the end of the day, every girl he manages to seduce that has been Stefan was like taking a new toy from Stefan - so it seems. And the way Stefan responds after they become vamps is problematic. WIth the exception of Elena's situation he sorta leaves him to it. Yeah he can't ACTUALLY make Damon do anything but Damon's mental state requires something radical I mean he's living out Katherine's lifestyle still like a puppet when he should really take himself away from it all.

With Elena, not gonna say he's not affectionate. I think he's affectionate towards her NOT in love with her. His idea of love ISN'T so twisted it's just the idea behind it, it's idealistic. To me, Damon just wants his happy ending. So, he can't have it with Katherine the love of his life..he'll just have to make do with Elena *shrug* I'm sure Damon DOES see Elena THE PERSON but I don't think he LIKES her personality overall. There are aspects of her that comfort him. 1. She shares Katherine's face. And Damon is a sucker for pain. He needs that face around to remind himself how much he messed up but also how much he loved Kat. 2. Elena didn't want to be a vampire etc. her personality seems to be on the other end of the spectrum. She aint as bright (sorry, Elena fans, but tb fair she's a young inkling in comparison to Kat), she DOESN'T like the idea of vampirism, she wants to be human and oh yeah she's COMPASSIONATE. 3. She gives off the illusion of guiding him without you know..well a strong personality It all seems that Damon is being shown rainbows and unicorns. It's no wonder he wants her.

I think that Damon does really love Elena, although I don't think she feels the same way. He tends to get hurt by the ones he truly cares about and I think that why he pretends to be something he isn't. I think he craves to be loved completey without Stefan being in the picture.

He definitely does love Elena, and I believe that Elena for sure does love him. But I honestly believe it's more of a companion/friend level more than anything else. I'm not being biased because I prefer SE over DE because up until season 4 started I was very much pro DE and SE.

KrayBaby wrote:

He definitely does love Elena, and I believe that Elena for sure does love him. But I honestly believe it's more of a companion/friend level more than anything else. I'm not being biased because I prefer SE over DE because up until season 4 started I was very much pro DE and SE.

If this is true, and she only loves Damon as a friend, they should make this clear and stop the stalling tactics for Delena. Just end the triangle, let Elena be with Stefan, and Damon find someone else. These two latest episodes proved they can go without this triangle, so why not just focus on something else and end it? SE can be epic together, and then Damon can find him someone else. Hell, if they wanted, they could even develop Bamon these last two seasons.

I mean I could be wrong, but I have a feeling that at some point that's what DE will boil down to. I would love for Damon to find someone who isn't in love with his brother. But, for now, I do think that even after the sire bond is broken, she will still choose Damon. But at some point I think she is going to get closer to Stefan again and they will get back what they once had.

And Damonic, I thought i had PM'd you last night and I just checked and for some reason it never went through, but i will PM you again later today.